I have been talking with someone for almost a month but suddenly he is no longer on my connections and no longer shows any of our messages. Is it possible he blocked me? Not sure why he would. Or is it just that his account might have ended?

asked by Kris W. on 9/4/15

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Thumbnail of user erwint7

You have to remember the website is a scam and it is owned by Elite Dating, They have like 50 diferent websites that do the same practice. I just found out they were using my pictures to lure old men to their websites, So when im on a ligit website site and those old nasty men try to hit me up I have to keep telling them they were mislead by Elite Inc. I wont waste my youth on old people. Its a fact and it wont change. Ill be none sexual friends and thats as far as it goes.

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Thumbnail of user jeffl50

Both, or he may have hidden or deleated his account. No way to tell exactly.
I usually would just exchange emails to avoid that problem. Don't take it personal, it's a numbers game. Just dialogue with a bunch of dudes and let the knuckleheads filter out.
It may sound cheesy, but thats the digital dating world.

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Thumbnail of user jasond58

Chances are he has found someone and deactivated his account. Its one of the most common frustrations of online dating. No one has the balls to tell anyone anything anymore. Willing to bet he will be back on within a month and try picking back up like nothing happened at all. Women do it all the time.

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Thumbnail of user herbm1

Jeff L. Gave you the answer. Next time exchange emails. Many of us cannot send messages! You gotta find a way in your profile or you're just throwing your money away.

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Thumbnail of user phillipa18

WOW! You actually found a real person and got a response.
I am not sure about the blocked part. Only thing I can think of is that his wife found out, or like you said maybe he didn't renew the membership.

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Thumbnail of user conniee6

I agree with all these other replies. Zoosk uses pictures and profiles of people that have already deleted their accounts. I know this because they had a profile of a friend of mine as active. He actually contacted me since Zoosk contacted him saying I wanted to meet him. So when I got ready to cancel my membership, I wrote in there "If you are seeing this profile after such and such date, it is bogus". Needless to say, Zoosk deleted that message. AND I deleted my pic before I cancelled. I hope my profile is no longer there. They do use fake accounts, and canceled ones... If he wanted to keep in contact numbers and emails should be exchanged. But be careful on that also...

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Thumbnail of user berniec23

I think the site is only there to allow the jerks running it to by big cars and finance a life style.Don't waste your money, you deserve better.

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Thumbnail of user tomr80

I got booted off and they wouldn't tell me why. The site is for the most part fraud. Fake profiles, crappy photos, you name it. A third of the people on there are from expired profiles from other sites. I also think many of the photos are from old, forgeign photo sharing places. Look at the photos of some of the members then look at the age they claim. LOL. Also, the recently indication online is BS. Pure crap. Read the reviews of this site. It's pure scam. Oh, I also noticed at least ten instances where the same person was listed in 7 different cities in Michigan in one week.

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Thumbnail of user cb80

More than likely his subscription ended. He's probably trying to pay another fee to get back on zoosk.

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Thumbnail of user dannym43

If you can't meet the person in public with in one week... Drop them...
They are married, not who they say they are... No where they say they are...
They could be a scam...?
Rule one... If you can't meet the person on person. In public... Move on... Two... Drop Zook's. Don't waste you $$$$...
All kinds of free places...
And watch out for the players & scams... A mile deep on Zook's...

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Thumbnail of user jillr19

I agree with ALL the previous replies and don't take it personal at all. I would say that he definately wasn't worth you or your attention. Keep the faith, regardless if you meet the man of your dreams on this site or elsewhere, I firmly believe there is someone for everyone.

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Thumbnail of user debbiep23

You must be very careful on any dating site. If he was really interested in staying in contact, he would have told you his subscription was ending. If he lived close to you, why didn't he ask to meet you. I'm a little synical, so my thoughts are he was either talking to several people and you fell off the list, or he was busted by a wife or a girlfriend... sorry.

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Thumbnail of user susand68

He could have deleted his account or he blocked you. Men can be really immature sometimes. Be careful.

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