Talking Parents Questions & Answers

I understand what she is saying. We're going through all of the issue's when he's passing them on to his girlfriend. My daughter's father wife communicates with me on here posing as him. Yes it's unfair but at the same time what can you do. You have to look at the bigger picture. This is about the child and not ourselves. They haven't gotten the meaning behind this site. They use it as their own punching bag against me. It bothered me at first but then I laid down my rules. If it doesn't pertain to our child, I won't be responding period to the abuse and bullying. Also having my daughter call me to make changes but then claim he can't bond because she's always on the phone with me. Which are all lies. Before he use to have her call me everytime she was with him, because he wanted to keep her longer. If she's comfortable then sure why not. Then he started using her to do more. Then it went to anytime he wanted to go outside our orignal time sharing, I ask him to have her call to see if she's ok with his changes. The conversation is a minute long and then I responded to him on here. Now he's doing a bunch of lying. So now there will be no time chaging PERIOD! No more her calling me unless emergancies. Sometimes being the bigger person, leaves u feeling silly. Even after setting talking parent up, they've tried having a physical altercation with me then ran back to this site like I did something wrong when I never left my car. They are trying everything to win this case, even going outside of the rules of this site. I'm saying all of this to say. You know the situation is bad but if u fight against it, they'll have points to fight u in court. Think of your child regardless of the situation and try to stay calm. My child will be 11 next month and he's been absent for 10 yrs. So I truely understand your feelings but you have to follow what is placed in front of you. I hope this helped