Hi Alisha,

Thank you for reaching us and for your interest in purchasing from us.

For more information on choosing the right size for your family, you may refer to this help page article:
How accurate is your Size Chart?
https://www.patpat.com/article/help/Ordering-Inquiry/Pre-Order/426

We're sorry to hear about the difficulty you are experiencing in choosing the right size for your needs. Please send us a message through https://www.PatPat.com/article/help/contact at your earliest convenience quoting this review so we can address this question in more detail and in a timely manner.