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Questions & Answers

From my experience as a paying member over 15 months, I learned that the most important thing is to check how the platform verifies identity in practice not just in policy.

Here’s what I recommend other users do before investing time or money:

1. Ask directly for a video call early
A genuine person will usually agree to a quick call, even a short one. If video calls are always avoided but emotional conversations continue and that’s a red flag.

2. Check the profile ID across platforms
If the same member appears on multiple affiliated sites with the same photos, bio, and ID, it may suggest profile replication across a shared database. That doesn’t automatically mean they’re fake but it does mean the platform should clearly explain how profiles are created and verified.
Remember, real people are not afraid of basic transparency
Even a 2-minute call or voice message often reveals everything.