I wanted my account closed ASAP, and after a month of asking, I looked for other alternatives because I didn't want to wait 90 days of inactivity for it to self delete. I looked at their Terms of Service and saw what would get it closed - so, I picked something political and posted it in my profile, and that's all it said. Within hours, my profile was gone. Had I thought of that 30 days before, I would have been gone then!

Best way is to edit your profile and write stuff about how Bear411 sucks, add some words he's likely blocking like Growlr, Bearwww, and call BuddyBear (the site owner) a narcissistic prick. Alternatively, some people have just messaged and emailed BuddyBear to get it deleted... but he never responded to me, so the above was my final recourse.