Sorry to break it to you Malcolm. Very few genuine girls on the site. You will have to go through 100 or more correspondences and be alert for cues indicating a scammer or insincere person. Then you will find the genuine girl or 2 and waste your time on them and after a few visits, they tell you they are not ready to get married. Now, mind you I am younger than you and quite good looking and fairly wealthy. You will have better luck contacting girls on vk (Russian equivalent of FB), I am on vacation in the Maldives with a 21 year old I met at vk, even as I reply to your question