A lot of people have had bad experiences with this internet dating. I can not understand the reason. I have been on this one several times. I am not looking for a husband just someone to be like a good friend. I have found many and when one or the other of us find someone else we part as friends. I think some people just look at the picture and turn them down. That will get you no where. If they have some interests like yours, give it a try. It might not be the love affair of the century but it could be the start of something good. My longest relationship was 4 years. I am 80 now.