I don't understand why people are complaining about this site. Of course not every woman will be interested in you, but you can still find someone nice to chat with. I have been chatting to my lady for about 6 months now, and I booked a tour to meet her in thailand in May. I am really looking forward to it. I'll let you know how everything went once I am back, but so far I can't really complain. I have spent a bit of money, sure, but good services don't come for free. I don't think it's a scam, it's just that people expect too much without having anything to give. Well guess what, it just doesn't work that way nowadays. This is a legitimate dating website and they make their money by offering you the chance to meet someone. Anyway, if you don't believe me and want to judge by yourself, they have a free trial that you can try out.