I am a woman looking for a man over 60 for friendship first. I wasn't expecting much, since there is so much negative said about online dating. But Dating for Seniors has very few men in the Ne w York City area and they are not even trying! Blurry photos where you can't see a face, backlit photos with faces in shadow, no information in the profile, and men just looking for a hookup. Why make a reference to oral sex in your screen name, otherwise? I think these men are looking for a free site and they don't want to pay for access to messages or whatever. I am cancelling my membership as there's nothing there.