POF is way overrated everything I read about it is one and a half to two stars only for being such a great FREE dating site I know they have to be favored in the paid members I'm not going to pay to find out however I only gotten one chat in over a year I've had several married women that I know check my profile there's nothing wrong with it other than I will not post my possessions and that's the other thing NOT ALL women at least the women have more tech than other dating sites that one on POF ask me my penis size. Lol. I'm sorry to say they fish for the money at least what I have coming to find out I am not that bad looking I'm pretty cute I'm told by many women however I don't want to date in my inner circle I want to date outside my circle that's why I even use a dating site again I've heard nothing but bad about POF if so many people are getting married on POF I have not met one married coupel as many as they claim gets married from their site surely you would run into one? Good luck