I joined this site 3 weeks ago paid as a VIP member, has met a lot of people. I am always surprised when people want to get things out of a dating site for free. If you want to get something from a dating site you must subscribe by paying otherwise go into the street and look for a woman. I think PinkyMadonna is the best as all the profiles are verified.
Tip for consumers: The site requires subscription at least as a gold member before you can interact freely as it is looking for serious people interested in dating and not scammers.