Stay away! I joined this site and was quickly contacted by some very attractive older women as was my interest. These women were frequently online but after the first contact - a flirt or brief email - I never heard from them again. They never responded to IMs. So I joined again under a different name and surprise, surprise, I was contacted by exactly the same set of "women" in more or less the same sequence and again nothing after the first contact. If you do a search you will find many, many users who have not used the site for months and the same group of very active and obviously fake profiles.