The majority of the profiles of the women on this site are the same repeitive drivel with different womens' pictures. I reported it and of course they would not refund my money... In many cases the women will give email address for you to respond to and then give you some story about how some guy made them feel "unsafe" and then ask you to subscirbe to this "Secure Identity" site and get some pass that lets them know you're OK. Of course you'd have to give that site all your personal information so that they can then rip you off further... Furthermore, when you sign up for this site, they don't tell you that they automatically make it so they can bill you every month unless you recontact and make sure they take you off the recurring billing. Seeking Arrangements.com is a whole other galaxy better than this absolute garbage... STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM THIS SITE!