Lila T.

I never thought I would ever post reviewing anything but stay away from this site. I've been a member for years. Don't post much anymore but read from time to time. Just a poor excuse for a social club now. I don't remember it being like this when I joined. The group think and the little cadre of bitter betrayeds that run anyone that has any moderate, rational view points off. A post today was a betrayed that had cheated on every relationship. A newer member called her out on it and the regular tribe swoops in and basically coddles her. How sad that a newbie has it far more together than the messes that continue to run every forum on that site. I was betrayed and have since remarried. I get the pain. I have recommended the site but every one I recommended it to never lasted. Left because of the cult mentality. I thought they were maybe being too sensitive. No. It's basically, "We know it all and are the experts. No other way works and how dare you not be hateful and bitter." The condescension and patronizing tone of their posts are offensive. They gang up on everyone that disagrees. Sister Milkshake that still googles and stalks her husbands ow years after, solus sto making nothing but excuses for any one betrayed regardless of how appalling they act. Even the few that post in wayward have become insufferable. How sad. Truly this was once a great site. The owner has always been petty but there were other members that made it worthwhile. It's nothing anymore other than a club, as another reviewer stated. A really pathetic one no one should want to join. Run. Reddit and other sites are far better than this mess. Baggage reclaim is a great resource too.