There is not enough users in the area to msg. Online dating is kind of numbers game anyways and paying for a 3 MONTH TRIAL is a bad idea because the will charge you at full price 79.99 consecutivley without any notice and will not allow you refunds even if you havent used any of their service. The customer service hotline is even worse. No enthusiasm what so ever to help their clients and even tried baiting me 1 month free. I asked him if I will be charged if I don't cancel it right away and he said yes ofcourse. So just canceled it right there. Bs site. Pof okcupid by far better don't go for gk2gk. That paid option though.
I learned my lesson..