Wow, I've only been experiencing the negativity their trolls handed out for a couple days when I got a hunch and looked up forum reviews. Ha! Just what I thought, it's a bunch of self-important basement dwellers who have nothing better to do all day than bash people.
They know SOME things about the law and can site codes and precedents but if you disagree with them on ANYTHING, that's it, you are the enemy from then on.
Even if you try to defend yourself, your defense is removed immediately, no matter how patient and even-tempered it is. Basically, no defense of ones self is allowed. If they say something disparaging about you, it stays. If you call them on it, your post is deleted.
If that doesn't describe a bunch of psychos running a forum... well. Make your own judgement.
Beware mostly of Mr. Knowitall... from what I can tell, he's the worst and probably a moderator, so be prepared to be called named and have every single one of your retorts to the contrary deleted as he apparently runs the forum.
Terrible site, I'd avoid it if I were you, it will only make you feel like there's no hope. I know I have a winning case, but they enjoy spreading their negativity around and want you to feel like you're going to lose. It's pathetic.
If you identify the thread that you posted I will be happy to look at it. However, you are not describing anything that actually happens in the forum.