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  • MelanieToniaEvans

3/27/23

With firsthand experience I confirm Melanie Tonia Evans is affluent in the knowledge of narcissists due to the fact she is one. Her self narcissistic knowledge is what she uses to drag you in. She continually seeks association with fresh people able to repetitively spruik promotion of her unlicensed methods of counselling, on her behalf. For years she has been the equivalent of listening to lengthy broken record played over and over again. Do not fall for her self blame model which includes "you attracted this to heal your inner wounds, or you attracted this because of your souls failings in past lives". The plain fact is, you go to school to learn the basic skills in life. Schools don't provide teachings on the psychology and tactics of narcissism and this is the only thing you personally need to learn to protect yourself and strengthen. Humans can only tangibly concentrate on this life, not fix any unknown ideology of past lives.
IMPORTANT, PLEASE NOTE: For a long period, she has received benefits for services rendered from being in contact with the narcissist/narcissists of some of her victim clientele, to emotionally abuse them further on the narcissist's behalf.
BEWARE, the more information you give MTE about your personal situation, the more means she has to research you, to obtain personal reward from your perpetrating narcissist! Melanie pretends to want to help heal others. Her methodology originated not from her sole epiphany as she claims, but from studying pre-existing therapists/mentors, with which she adapted to her brand. Research this fact on the internet and you will see for yourself. She thrives, knowing you paid to consume weeks/months of your time listening to her lengthy repetitive modules which have nothing more factually to add than her free sample. She and her trained moderators disguise their words numerous ways, but the essence always is "If you don't emotionally heal from her modules, you are the problem and don't question us or you're out". This is standard cult like group scapegoat abuse 101, in the narcissistic hand book to protect the business model and make the victim feel further isolated for speaking the truth. Some MTE moderators are enabling MTE and should take a hard look at their scripted training. Moderators, please wake up! Think for yourself, have mindful moral decency, self-respect and respect for others. Some moderators have woken up and silently left MTE, many haven't.
ADVICE: complaining directly to MTE is rarely successful. Best proven practice is to:
1. Write/email your honest dot pointed complaint simply, without malice and request a delivery receipt from MTE.
2. Keep records of all correspondence, their response and their actions taken.
3. Instantly disassociate from Melanie and her brand if their response is bland, inappropriate or traumatising. Be very careful not to get dragged into their confusing spiral back and forth, latent with innuendo to provoke an emotional reaction from you. They know exactly which emotional buttons to push.
NEXT STEP: Together, stand up, collate your abusive experiences with MTE, speak up and present them to authorities to have her debunked and removed publicly! Many have not had the strength remaining to do so, after MTE's underhanded emotional attacks. If this is you, know you are not alone! INSTEAD, NOW, TAKE YOUR POWER BACK! Do not allow MTE to kick you again while you are already down. Many countries have a Code of Conduct for unregistered health care workers who's governing bodies you can make a formal complaint. If you are from another country, please also make a complaint in Australia. Write a letter to the Editor of the State newspaper in Victoria and Queensland and write a letter to televised news services such as "A Current Affair" in Australia. Plus, report your experience on sites such as this. Collectively this MTE unscrupulous behaviour can be stopped to protect the emotional wellbeing of current and future victims that may be negatively affected by her controlling methodology.

To the people who are happy with MTE services, that's great, her victims would be glad you feel you have not been affected in this way, but please know there are many of her other clients that have been severely traumatised! Please do not protect or speak publicly for MTE in these cases that you personally do not have the factual information about and risk your own integrity by becoming an MTE enabler. Please be thankful you were not personally affected and let MTE fight her own battles and take personal responsibility and accountability for her self and her trained teams actions on these factual accounts.

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