Hans H.

I would like to add a few more things to my first review.
I can well imagine that there were also disappointments. To everyone who thinks this site is a scam site.
Take a realistic look from your side what the chances of success are. They are always at 50:50.
The more realistic you are, the more points you collect on the left. Deal with your appearance and how you want the woman by your side to look. The women pay an entrance fee. It is mostly women who have to make a compromise because they have little chance of finding a man on the Chinese marriage market.
Most prospects can be found on such a page.
Language barrier: All letters are translated from English to Chinese. Very few women can speak English.
A woman's first letter is always free, at least that was the case in my case. Don't be blinded by photos. It was also my first mistake with two women.
Note the age difference. When a single 25 year old woman writes to a man over 50, it is an attempt at fraud. No young woman of this age is really looking for a man over 50. And she is still under family wing. Parents pay attention to who they drag in. So stay away and ignore it at all. Letters from such women only generate sales. Women over 30 with children. The chances of entering into a relationship with such a woman are far from higher. These women can hardly be placed any more. The parents of such a woman know that too. Parents are more willing to give their consent to marry a western man.
This can sometimes be a reason why pre-arranged meetings do not take place. The woman is under immense family pressure. And the family counts once more than an unknown and waiting man at the airport. And a meeting with only two or three corrosponding letters is unrealistic.
Don't apply pressure to meet. The lady of your heart, as she really means it, will urge you to meet you. It was the same with my wife. She asked after a few letters whether it was possible that I could visit her in China. You yourself do not benefit if you suggest an appointment and flimsy excuses come up. I had seen it with two women before. One had to go to another city for work and didn't know how long it would take, and the other said she would have to meet another candidate with whom she was also in contact. That was at least honestly true, but I saw myself as a second choice. I broke off contact with both of them, although they were still writing to me. I saved the cost of reading. Then my current wife appeared.
Get names of hotels in their area.
At that time I asked my wife to choose and name several hotels in her area. She did this too. And via a hotel platform I was able to find all the hotels she named. A scammer won't bother.

My wife also wanted her translator to be there.
I found this to be an additional positive sign and of course I agreed.
I had also written down the address of the branch and took it with me when I met for the first time. As a precaution, there should be a meeting. In my last letter before the meeting, I gave the name of the hotel and my cell phone number. Of course, it was also a risk for me. But to my surprise, the translator announced on the same day of our arranged meeting that they would pick me up at a certain time to go out to eat. And in fact they had arrived by taxi at the appointed time. One more thing about behavior. Even if the lady visits you alone in the hotel. Keep your hands with you. Act like a gentleman. The ladies appreciate it. I met my wife on Wednesdays. On Thursday she bought a tablet with translation software. On Thursday evenings she was alone with me in the hotel room. I made no signs of wanting to get closer to her. And on Fridays when visiting the Water Museum in Shenzhen, it was she who took my hand in the taxi and couldn't let go of my hand. With that I knew I had won her heart.