I have been a member of AM in 2014 and since 2015 I am a member of Saphrina. I used both sites with good results (at least one hookup every two months on AM and similar results on Saphrina) but one day I just wanted to try something new. Well, AffairAlert did not convince me so far. It is my second month I have been using it but right now it seems like I can't really connect to anyone who is ready to hookup. Not sure how to rate the website. For now I think it deserves a three star rating but I will come back and post my updates.