eric m.

I am a male Frenchman living in Texas and surveyed the cities of Houston, Austin, San Antonio and Dallas for women. I had a 2-weeks gold membership for free b/c I had my ID verified. I didn't even use my 2-weeks gold access and had enough of AFF after 10 days.

I was very surprised to find the following kinds of members on that site: Most women are 45 or older. Few are still hot but most are of average looks and body types and have little education. I didn't survey the men but according to the male pictures female had on their profile as 'friends', there are a lot of big, muscular, ripped guys apparently younger than the women and showing off their huge c**k. Sure enough, these older women close to the end of their sexual life go crazy and do not respond to you if you don't have these incredible assets. Many average or lower older women require that men be a certain height, at the very least 5ft10 but 6ft is better. And they expect you to look like Brad Pitt.

I'm 45 but look younger, I'm fit and educated. I'm not a Don Juan but I usually date women ~10 years younger with above average looks and who are also fit. On aff, I had written what I thought was a fairly nice profile and posted 1 pic of my upper body (no face) to show off my fitness. 1) Few women ever checked my profile. Some started talking to me but never checked my profile. 2) Some checked my profile but never replied. 3) For those who replied, after a couple of e-mails, they would ask me for some face pics... and never talked to me again! So here I was, thinking I was lowering my standards a bit with some of these women... but it was they, 5-10 years older w/ average body type and little education, who rejected me! It was laughable!

So gentlemen, if you're tall and really good looking, you may be very busy on this site. If you're above average but below a 8/10, you will remain lonely.