If you're male, they will block you without notice, citing offensive behavior, I've always been polite. Have noticed after seeking who is in my area, all females who have said pretty offensive things, offering sex for money (even written in their profiles), insults about your looks (wtf? I'm not judgmental but you should see some of these women), are allowed to continue membership whereas men are blocked without reason. If you have met someone nice, they will block you before you can exchange numbers. Due to their policy, if you ask for contact info, they will block you, too. So what's the point? They keep your photos after they ban you, too. Most depressing and loathsome dating site I've ever seen.