I give it five stars because I got lucky enough to meet the perfect guy for me. So that's awesome but as far as the site goes... Well, probably only a 21/2... When I would try to change my profile, perfect match and ideal date SEVERAL TIMES the site would email me and tell me they were approved and then they would be taken down. Though I was supposedly and completely within their specified guidelines. I also found it totally difficult to DELETE my profile completely. I finally figured it out but that was after I found out what I thought wasn't in my profile on my end was actually still there according to another member on the other side of it. That put me on a mission to figure out and delete it completely! But I am not going to complain too much cause at the end of the day if meeting him was worth any amount of irritation! Just saying and I wish that for everyone else, too.