Been on & off this site for several years and it's just a con. There may be a handful of genuine MILFs, But the vast majority are totally faked.
You get these messages from various women - but they are obviously all written by the same person - just too similar.
And when you start chatting, they are deliberately vague and string you along so you keep messaging... and PAYING for it.
You're probably not even chatting to a woman - it's probably some bearded fat hobo smoking a fag & drinking beer, pretending to be a 23 year-old nympho!
Sites like this should be banned from the internet - it's criminal fraud.