Just joined but wish I hadn't. Difficult to get a good feel for how the site works without joining and paying quite hefty fees.
Once on it seems like it is full of scammers. Lots of messagea from other side of world/country.
There doesn't seem to be a way to restrict who can see your profile to, for instance, members from your home city.
Not easy to work out how to block, remove, delete.
Lousy site and waste of money so far.