It's a complete ripoff, a psychological means of exploitation of all the lonely men, and with the women, except for the really glamorous ones who men throw money (called tips, but you pay 20 bucks for 200 tokens for 'tips'), the women are suffering self-esteem and, it's all phony and false, and the women will tell you you're cute when they don't even know you, they just want to emotionally manipulate you so they can get some of the money you spend there, whatever doesn't go to the site's owners. Supposed IP tracking and 'keeping info' issues combined with this exploitation of the lonely make it a site to best avoid. A SCAM.