If you're planning on moving to a different state city this site is pretty good there are of course thousands of people on the site and they will help you right and left.
There's work, psychology, personal experiences and non romantic problems stuff like that general things once you get into the politics well some people say it's right wing some people say it's left wing some people say the moderators are too heavy-handed some say they're not heavy-handed enough.
This is also really good is that you can direct mail a message to posters asking questions and probably I'd say 95% of them happily respond with good information and helpful suggestions.
The rest are mean nasty cranky and ignorant...