This is very feminine. It is purposely large (as in the picture), so make sure to have a cami or undershirt to wear as well. I am a bigger girl, 5'7 and 175 pounds so it doesn't hang off of me like the girl in the photo but it's still large enough that I get the baggy-boho look. If you're smaller you can definitely do the off the shoulder look with them. Super light material, great for summer, you do have do wear a tank top underneath obviously.