Not a bad site. You go through phases, sometimes you're popular and other times you can wait a week or two for a single reply! Key is to stay positive and open. I nearly gave up a few times early on I must admit but after a few dates you soon get how it all works. My dates havent been very good but I cant really blame the site for that. Just need to pick better women who dont go in a huff because I show up a bit late for example lol! Yeah it's prob 4/5 stars IMHO.