The concept is OK but "playing games" with questions back and fourth doesn't mean there will be any chemistry in the end... ESPECIALLY WITHOUT A PICTURE POSTED. Just a waist of time. In the end what turned me off is that they would not let me cancel my subscription. There is no customer service number and I e mailed them over and over and I still kept getting charged. I put in a dispute with pay pal and still couldn't get my account cancelled. E harmony are not good guys and I'm not sure who the great actor is in the TV ads. I seriously doubt it is the owner of the site.