The site is difficult to use ie deleting messages and flirts. I have a feeling that most of the women they show you are no longer even users. They website does nothing at all to keep women with several different accounts from blowing up your in box. I did however finally glean a date with a real woman and she is pretty nice but the rest are really far away or their account is not in use. It was really a lot of work to find a real person who was not a hooker etc. Seeking Arrangement seems like a much better site with more actual women