Had only been on pof 2 weeks before we found each other. I had fun talking to some of the guys. I think u have to be very clear in what you want and are looking for. Otherwise you allow the others to waste your time. You knew that guy wasn't crap when you first heard him speak but you ignored your intuition and carried on any way. Not pof fault... yours. I been with my man 2 years now he is a wonderful provider and we will be getting married this summer.