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It's Just Lunch has a rating of 3.8 stars from 378 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with It's Just Lunch most frequently mention next date, perfect match and executive matchmaker. It's Just Lunch ranks 10th among Dating sites.
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I went on my first "it's just lunch" date on 9/28/2025. The match quality was extremely noticeable difference compare to dating apps i have been using. I don't think the girl i meant click with me, so i hopeful for the next dating opportunity.
It's Just Lunch is a good organization that really attempts to match people based on their requests and compatibility. Lisa is my matchmaker and she is very professional. Lisa always gets back to me if I leave a voicemail or an email. Lisa really listens to what I am saying and finds me dates based on the criteria that I give her. I wanted intelligent, she gave me intelligent. I wanted cute, she gave me cute dates. It's not easy dating at age 45, but Lisa is in my corner and is really trying (and succeeding) in helping me.
Thank you, James, for sharing your experience and kind words about your matchmakers dedication. We appreciate your trust and commitment, and we’re excited to continue supporting you on your journey ahead!
My contact Amber has been helpful. My first date was satisfactory. Good conversation and fun evening.
We are so happy to hear this, thank you for taking the time to share your feedback and looking forward to your next date!
Working with the matchmaker has been a great experience, but there seem to be a limited number of men available in my area.
We are happy to hear you are enjoying working with a professional IJL matchmaker. We are here for you every step of the way!
My experience has been generally satisfactory. However, I have had several referrals that did not materialize followed by lengthy periods of no referrals. This is discouraging, especially since I try to be accommodating to my referrals. I like personally meeting the people referred to me instead of on-line. The other point: due to my life schedule, sometimes I cannot respond to your request for dates to meet a referral as quickly as IJL seems to want. I will get the "Are you available to date" email before I have a chance to read the original email. Then, when I do provide dates and times to meet, I find out that the person is moving in a different direction. A little more time would be helpful. Again, overall, it has been satisfactory but with the shortcomings described above. I do appreciate the efforts of executive matchmakers.
Thank you for taking the time to share your feedback with us. Your questions have been passed along to our team. Thank you for being an IJL client.
I first joined IJL 10 months ago. I enjoyed the on boarding process with Elizabeth as I was excited to get started with my next phase in life. I must admit that's where the fun stopped. After dealing with my first date advisor. I felt as though she wasn't listening to my concerns or inquiries, very mechanical approach, which I did not appreciate.
I then received a call from Lisa indicating she is my new date advisor. Lisa spent time getting to know me ask questions as to my wants and needs suddenly my dating experience changed for the better and I was excited again dealing with IjL.
After every date, Lisa would follow up with me and we will talk about it.
I highly recommend Lisa.
Thank you, Larry, for sharing your thoughtful feedback and highlighting your matchmaker's dedication to understanding you better. We're glad her approach reignited your excitement and will continue striving to support your journey in a meaningful way.
Finding a life partner requires lots of faith and determination tempered with patience. Relationships can be complicated and finding a place to begin is also complicated. I began this process with the words of a great University Basketball Coach who was also renowned as an inspirational public speaker, Mr. Jimmy Valvano who said near the end of his battle with cancer, "Never give up Never give up." Finding a life partner requires that same belief. I believe it also begins with Its Just Lunch.
We appreciate the comparison, Jimmy V was one of the greats! We completely agree, there is a lid for every pot. Never give up on yourself or happiness.
I have worked with two great ladies at It's Just Lunch: Lisa and Catherine. They really take the time to get to know your likes/dislikes and work hard to find you a match. They make it easy by setting up everything once you and your potential match decide you want to meet. This is a much better way to meet someone over internet dating. Let the pros do their thing and find you the perfect love connection.
We are truly delighted to know that you have had such a positive experience with your journey so far with IJL. Thank you for sharing your experience – here's to IJL bringing many more great encounters your way!
It was refreshing to have someone actually answer the phone and walk me through the process so thoroughly. From the start, they took the time to ask thoughtful questions and really get to know me. I spoke with a matchmaker the next day, and before I knew it, I was set up on my first date. The date went incredibly well—she had all the qualities I was looking for and was so easy to talk to. I'm genuinely looking forward to more dates with my first match. Thank you, IJL, for making the process so smooth and personal!
Max, thank you so much for sharing your experience—we're thrilled to hear the personalized approach and attentive conversations made your journey both smooth and enjoyable. It’s fantastic your first date was such a great match, and we’re here to support you as you look forward to what comes next!
I worked with Jaiye. Jaiye has been great, very understanding and supportive, from our very first conversation through the whole process. I highly recommend It's Just Lunch, if you really want to find your special someone.
Thank you immensely for your enthusiastic recommendation and positive experiences with It's Just Lunch! Here's to finding that special someone and continuing to enjoy each impressive match together!
My matchmaker Lisa D. Has gone out of here way to find suitable matches for me. She is an attentive listener who will make it her business to contact me when I request that she does so!
Thank you so much, Suzanne, for your kind words! Lisa truly enjoys supporting you, and we're excited to continue helping you find meaningful connections moving forward.
My Match counselor was wonderful He explained to me how IJL works. Very informative. But the dates were not worth the money! My first date didn't want or need to be there... It Made me feel like crap.
I don't know how that could have been a match. My second match did not work out.
I feel like I could have found these men on Match.com and saved myself a lot of money. I'm still entitled to one more date?
Hi Laraine, we appreciate this feedback. Feedback from you on your dates is the most important part of the process to fine tune the matchmaking. We look forward to your future dates, it only takes one!: -)
Working with It's Just Lunch has been a wonderful experience, and I want to take a moment to give a special shoutout to my matchmaker, Jaiye L. From our very first conversation, Jaiye made me feel heard, understood, and genuinely supported throughout the matchmaking process. He has a rare gift for balancing professionalism with warmth, and his thoughtful, intuitive approach made all the difference. Jaiye took the time to get to know me—not just what I was looking for in a partner, but who I am as a person. Every match he introduced felt intentional and aligned with my values and goals. What sets Jaiye apart is his ability to combine empathy, insight, and encouragement with a clear passion for helping people connect in meaningful ways. He truly cares about his clients, and it shows in every interaction. If you're considering It's Just Lunch, I highly recommend working with Jaiye. He's not just a matchmaker—he's a trusted guide through one of the most important journeys we take in life. Thank you, Jaiye, for your unwavering support and incredible dedication!
David, your thoughtful review truly brightens our day and validates the heart of what we do here at IJL. We’re so glad to have been a meaningful part of your experience and look forward to our continued partnership in dating.
Don't know what to describe as experience. I am not sure what to write here.
We hope you are enjoying working with your matchmaker and appreciate the review!
Good first date experience. We mat he'd well.on family values and live within a half hour of each other.this was the best of any of the previous experiences. With good feedback things get better. With the more infor.ation given the better they can refine your match. Good things take time and effort.
Thank you for sharing your positive dating experience with us. We're excited to support you as you continue on your dating journey and look forward to arranging more enjoyable and meaningful dates for you.
I have been in It's Just Lunch for 8 months and have gone on 1 date. I declined only 1 other date. Most accounts seem to be on hold. I appreciate that my matchmaker is selective in who he matches me with. Better communication would be helpful when an account is on hold instead of wondering what happened with a potential date you thought was being scheduled. Also follow up after a date to discuss the form answers would be appreciated. I also am curious as to the pool of men in the age range I'm looking for but no one could give me an approximating of this.
Hi Leah, thanks for sharing your experience so thoughtfully. We appreciate your insights and will definitely share your feedback with our team. Thank you!
I am so happy to have moved on from fruitless online dating platforms and found It's Just Lunch. My matchmaker Lisa, who is very knowledgeable and a real professional, arranged a great date with a wonderful person. We had a good time and will be going on a second date soon. It's Just Lunch is invaluable!
Bob, thank you so much for sharing your wonderful experience! We are thrilled to have helped you find a meaningful connection, and we wish you all the best on your second date. Your kind words truly mean a lot to us!
As a widowed male in my 50's I found myself not knowing where to start when I was ready to try dating. I was not comfortable using the dating apps now commonly used to meet people. As a busy professional, I was interested in having a personalized experience that would help me through the introduction process as well as match me with like-minded singles that shared common interests and values. IJL was the perfect solution. I was introduced to my executive matchmaker, Lisa D, who made the process both easy and painless. She handled everything - from understanding my likes and preferences to identifying compatible matches and scheduling first dates. Within two weeks I was going out on dates and meeting wonderful people. I would highly recommend their service.
Gabriele, thank you for sharing your story and trusting us to support you on this new chapter – it’s truly rewarding to hear our team made the experience seamless. We look forward to more fun first dates in your future!
My Experience with It's Just Lunch I've been using It's Just Lunch with the hope of meeting someone special through their matchmaking service. As a man looking to be matched with women who share my interests and values, I was optimistic at first. I made it clear from the start what I was looking for—someone younger, with certain qualities and physical preferences. I even provided photos and detailed information about myself. Unfortunately, the matches I've received so far haven't aligned with what I've asked for. It often feels like the matchmakers are just trying to meet a quota, rather than genuinely considering the preferences I've shared. None of the matches have been close to what I would consider a good fit, which has been disappointing. That said, my most recent matchmaker, Lisa, has been excellent in terms of communication and professionalism. She seems to be trying harder than the others to understand what I'm looking for. However, despite her efforts, I still haven't been matched with anyone I'm interested in going on a date with. Overall, while I appreciate the concept behind It's Just Lunch, my experience so far hasn't lived up to my expectations. I'm still hopeful things might improve, but up until now, I've been let down by the service. Jack ⸻
HI Jack, thank you for your feedback. Please contact us at customerservice@ijlcorp.com to discuss your concerns further.
Working with IJL has been a pleasure. The team is attentive and timely and genuinely cares about finding a match!
We deeply value your positive feedback and look forward to supporting you on many more successful matchmaking experiences.
Answer: It's Just Lunch is a scam... don't do it! It's just them charging your credit card! They work hard on getting your credit card number - once you pay customer service is OVER! There's no team of people looking for you & you can't access anyone -with out them initiating a contact. In 14 months only one 'lunch'. However, because the experience was so horrible, not even It's Just Lunch counts it as 'lunch'. I've been asking for my money to be refunded. Whatever you do, be proactive for yourself & just say "no.".
Answer: Unfortunately, now I cannot share a success story, because there was absolutely nothing that was successful about this company
Thank you, John, for taking the time to share your first experience with us so positively. We look forward to supporting you on more dates to come. We look forward to your next fun first date!