Chatted with quite a few women and had some, that i thought, possible matches. (in 37 reviews)
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They do work, but you have to be very charming, very respectful, and very patient. For every 100 women's profiles on that site:
60 are spammers
20 are just there for a fantasy chat, not meeting
10 are lesbians
8 will arrange a meeting but chicken out
2 are real and willing to meet, and they're dealing with the 999 men just like you thanks to the 10:1 ratio
Get on the chat, send out your emails, and be prepared to find NOBODY for months. I wouldn't be shocked if you camped the IM thing for an entire week without talking to anyone. But persistence, patience, and respect pays off. Do not say "nice ass wanna $#*!?" That does not work, in any medium.
HookupHangout.com or NoStringsAffair is probably a better bet. I've met a number of people on HH in particular.
been on adultfriendfinder they make up fake profiles people never can meet once u get close to meeting them they all of a sudden move there profile or else they get dropped for abuse i believe the whole thing is a scam ive had almost a thousand women flirt with me but never met one i have spent 220 dollars on this site some of the worst money i ever spent also there are lots of profiles that come from different countries girls asking for money also girls get on there wanting you to vote there *** videos or else they are cam girls trying to get money its pathetic
Adult Freind Finder used to be the best adult dating site, but right now it is flooded with cam girls and Nigerian scammers.
I don't recommend you joining the site, but if you really want to get laid, use other ones having better ratings and nice reviews. HookupHangout.com works perfectly for me, so I can definitely recommend that one.
Once again many haters around! I use all kind of adult dating sites and AFF will get you laid! Period! I joined AFF and a bunch of other sites and here are my results:
AdultFriendFinder= 2 HookUps, iHookUp= 0 HookUps, BeNaughty= 0 HookUps, CasualDating4u= 5 HookUps, Fling= 1 HookUp, xpartner= 0 HookUps
As you can see: It works! There may be better sites but most of the other sites are pure scam!
They claim to have over 50million members? Not sure about that! But this site sure is teh biggest hook up site on earth! Regarding male-female-ratio, I believe sites like CasualDating4u.com are much, much better and provide a better "Anti-Fake" policy. But regarding quantity this site rules.
Full of fakes and phonies and weirdos. They give you the option to report someone but when you do they don't follow up and do anything anyway! Do yourself a favor and have a profile on hookuphangout.com instead. It proved to be the best hookup site so far
AFF isn't my first hook up site so I have some experience in online dating and I believe it's not the worst site at all. It is one of the better sites I have visited in a while. CasualDating4u.com is better for sure but other sites are not.
I've spent several days, found some sexy ladies, talked to them in private. It works! AFF is a waste of time for those who don't know how online dating works. Those guys with skills: It is one of the better sites!
I think whether a dating site "works" or not depends on the person using it. That's a fairly obvious statement, but I don't mean any sarcasm by it. I guess my point is that one should really consider which dating sites are right for them as well as the male to female gender ratios on the sites. In my case AFF wasn't good enough because men on the site were rude indeed.
As a single girl in my mid-20s living in a large metro area, I actually get tons of messages. I try to respond to most of them but it's not too easy. As for one of my college buddies, who's a dude in a suburb of PA, it hasn't been so easy - and I recommended the same site I'm on: HookupHangout.com. So, I guess it just depends.
I signed up to this site for a year. I did not meet one girl. Most of the girls who want to talk to you want seduce you for money or to drag you to another web site. Sadly the administrators to nothing about this. The average girls on there are poor. Not very friendly, due to rude guys. I advise only taking a trial for a few days and that is it.
I am a woman using AdultFriendFinder. I signed up for this site and here is the problem: Pretty clear that I was being contacted by multiple men. I knew that already. But all those guys send rude messages, or they send pictures of their "little friend" immediately.
I was not able to find one guy who was even able to communicate with me without sending messages like: "Hey Hun! Let's have sex in my car!"
There are plenty of sites for "Friendship with benefits" where you can meet nice and handsome men. Hey girls, use sites like CasualDating4u instead if you were also not lucky on AdultFriendFinder.
All the guys complaining are their worst enemies! I have been using AFF for two years and in those two years I was only able to find one site which was slighty better (CasualDating4u.com). But beside you will not find a better hook up site than AFF!
Since I use it I've met and had sex with so many women, I forgot to count! All of the poor reviews on here are ridiiculous. Many girls told me that men use AFF sending nasty requests, posting $#*! pictures. WTF??? AFF works if you know how to behave!
Joined the site and realized that every female my girl tryed to contact never replied to her messages and " winks" and "flirts" are all a joke as well.
I made some research here and found a great alternative.
So save your money for HookupHangout.com, don't waste it on these scams.
Totally disagree with most reviewers and I seriously don't know where they come from?!
AFF is a legend! In general there are only TWO adult dating sites which work. Number one is CasualDating4u.com and the 2nd best is AFF.
Your private info on AFF may not be as private as you think. I googled my AFF profile name and it brought up my complete AFF profile. I clicked on the "account information" tab and it displayed all my personal information including my name, address etc.
If you care about your privacy, better get yourself a membership on http://www.hookuphangout.com/. I have never had any issues with them
Agree with many guys: Good looking women generally don't exist on here, it is really not like CasualDating4u.com where you find many hot girls. But if you want to go for the average looking woman it is ok to use AFF. All the good looking girls onhere don't seem to be genuine.
The number of fake accounts created to generate interest is a joke. I was solicited daily with emails from non existent females. It got worse as my membership was about to expire. At least 50% of the women on cam are soliciting from professional websites. Don't waste your time or money, have a membership at HookupHangout.com instead - this site really works unlike AFF.
Been a while, but i got in plenty of trouble, on that site. Mostly dude's wives on there.
If you're good looking & have a personality, it works fine.
Not my type of deal any longer, plus, it's been hacked & anyone can find your real I.D., if you're a member.
I sat up a user name and profile just so I could browse through and see the goods. I never paid and I'm damn glad I didn't. If you do a browse search you can pick a state and see the numbers of "men seeking women" and "women seeking men" There are roughly 20 men for every 1 woman. Who in their right mind would pay for a site that is that lopsided? If you're a man that is. I guess women have the pick of the litter but if you're a man, forget it. I've been told I look like Triple H when he had long hair. Body and all. I got 5 views in 3 months and of the 5, 3 sent messages and 2 hotlisted me. But that was it. So just bag any ideas of actually finding someone on this site---or any other site for that matter. They're all a scam.
This site has drawn the most immoral rude filthy disgusting dregs of society that has ever lived. This seems like perfect hunting grounds for a psychopath; and scammers are rampant throughout
I'm a relatively handsome fella. Ask me, I won't lie. In any case I've never really had a problem having a woman on my arm. A few weeks hitting the clubs, beaches, restaurants, and in general being on the prowl to find a honey....I've never failed. At least until I tried hooking up on AFF. This place is a joke. Good looking women generally don't exist here or are as rare as a unicorn. Fat and ugly women think far too much of themselves. And then don't get me going on all the fake profiles. I've been casually visiting the site for about 3 months and have gotten squat, zero, zilch. I get more from the honey at the checkout in the local grocery store. AFF cn have the money, I just need to get my dignity back! I'm embarrassed to have wasted my time on such a place. Do yourselves a favor guys.....bird in hand, there's no bush for you on AFF, check out someone the old fashioned way.....buy yourself an escort with the money you would waste on a place like AFF.
For those who don't heed my advice.....HA
I joined this site almost 2 months ago and had 300 responses responded to everyone and in return got f*****, and they don't mean literally,so anyone else that wants to throw their money away to any of these sites except for the the basic date sites not any of these f***ing sites then go ahead and throw your money away because you're talking to nobody but a computer and a idiot out there! Good luck to all because the internet is a f****** rip off!!!
We created an account on AFF looking for couples. I answered some of their questions and did not uploaded any pictures at all...almost a blank profile. Not even a day later, my profile got approved, and I start getting e-mails about couples wanting to meet me. Really? Without even seeing what we look like? I came to realize that this is nothing but spam and scam just waiting to take your hard earned money.
AFF is a huge brand but they don't care about their database too much, as the site is FLOODED with fake profiles.
I got more lucky with HookupHangout.com. I was skeptical going in but was glad to be found wrong. Chatted with quite a few women and had some, that i thought, possible matches. Went out with one woman and we had most wonderful time together.
It is all about patience guys!
Don't get yourself fooled. Look for real looking women. Remember super models don't use dating sites.
They require you to sign up for "gold" and pay for it. Then delete the profile after taking the money with no explaination and without responding to conatct and questions.
My id was: shysissybimbo
Possibly the worst dating site in history, abuse is rife, in chat rooms and message form.
Customer service (what a joke) is non existent, they never reply. Chat room is full of people with multiple accounts cyber bullying anyone who does not take their side.
Unless you pay for membership, you can do nothing on the site.
Avoid, save your money and your sanity by staying the hell away!
I've used AFF off and on for over ten years with some success. For men it is a big money pit, but there were ways to work around that. Until now. Logging in and doing things like adding photos gave you points you could spend on sending a message to a member. That doesn't work now. Unless you are a $30 a month Gold member, you can't read replies to your messages. Now you also can't spend points on a month's worth of Gold membership without sending copies of documents to verify your identification. After the Ashley Madison privacy breach, nobody should send copies of personal information to these kinds of adult websites. I can't believe AFF has the gall to force such a policy after the Ashley Madison breach.
Besides all that, like I say AFF is a money pit for men, and it takes advantage of them. Women get to apply for free Gold memberships. Membership revenue is a burden that men carry through inflated fees. Not worth it because most of the profiles are spammers or fake profiles set up by women who sort of want to live out just a cyber fantasy or just be the center of attention from large numbers of grovelling males ages 18-99. If you don't live in a big city your chances of actual contact are few and far between. AFF is a waste of time and money. I think these kinds of sites have had there day. Less people are willing to play such high costs for something of very little value -- which is why AFF has made things more expensive. A new wave of apps and adult dating sites are poised to take their place, and now they don't have the money to buy them out like they used to. Good riddance to AFF.
We joined this site out of curiosity. We were not happy with it and cancelled our subscription before the first month was over. However, they charged our credit card anyway. I have had nothing but the run around through emails and phone calls. First, they agreed to refund money, then when I called they said they couldn't refund it. I turned it over to BBB and once again they agreed to pay and wanted to verify my address before sending a check. When the check never came, I sent another email only to receive the same blanket response that a refund could not be issued. They are frauds and liars. PLEASE DO NOT GIVE THEM YOUR CREDIT CARD!!!!
After creating a profile and realizing that it's sole purpose was to be a marketing target, I also noticed you cannot communicate with anyone's direct profile. When I explored the local search tool, I noticed that a realistic 50% of these girls were cuter than average, 27 yrs old and were bisexual. Intriguing, right? Enough to make you consider signing up because I have to at least throw these girls a line.
Then when I came to read these reviews to confirm my suspicions, I read that a man in his forties, who had not even posted a pic, was getting friend requests from girls 5 years younger than him. I'm 32, so the abundant amount of 27 yr old profiles immediately allowed me to realize the sites recruiting strategy.
“17.2 With respect to Content you submit or make available for inclusion on publicly accessible areas of the adulthookup.com Site the license to use, distribute, reproduce, modify, adapt, publicly perform and publicly display such Content on the adulthookup.com"
And this one is proof that there are indeed, many fake profiles, used mainly for marketing...
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14.1 adulthookup.com encourages You to use the ONLINE REGENT service to enhance communications, entertainment and Your total site experience and enjoyment.
14.2 An ONLINE REGENT may be a digital actor, an avatar or a synthespian (e.g. a computer generated "person" or "character"). ONLINE REGENTS may be employed by adulthookup.com or a third party to enhance Your online experience. For example, an ONLINE REGENT may provide an electronic introduction to new or existing adulthookup.com features or functionality, or discourage inappropriate behavior.
14.3 By consenting to and accepting these Terms, You acknowledge You fully understand, accept and agree to the ONLINE REGENTS service. You acknowledge that You understand that some of the profiles and Members displayed on them are not actual members of the site. ONLINE REGENTS are not associated with any other user of the site, but are sent to You in an effort to promote broader enjoyment, additional activity and fuller participation in all our Services."
I joined AFF some months ago. What can I say. Ofcourse here and there some fakes but it works sometimes.
But what i must say is, that datingme.org works better for me. I got more emails and I find a nice girlfriend there. Just check it out :-)
If you think that this site is legit, ask yourself how many girls could you walk up to on the street and ask to see their ass? The punches in the face you would get would far outweigh anything that you would see. Why would anyone expect to see hundreds and hundreds of them showing it here? These are the same ripoff artists that will tell you that Ashley Madison isn't a scam! How's that working out? Not too good. The hackers didn't take them down for no reason. They need to get working and clean the rest of these pigpens out! Most people won't admit to being robbed by one of these sites. I was one of them that was. Had to close my checking account, and cancel my credit card. By the time that I realized that all these profiles and pictures can't be real, it was too late. It isn't too late for you, if you pay attention. These are thieves. All these sites are linked. Check out the overseas addresses of them. Why are so many from Cypress? Malta? Nigeria? That's where your credit card information is going. Good luck with that. They sign you up with other scam sites and dip into your account to pay for them. Then it's up to you to get rid of them all. They were charging me for 3 sites before I could stop them. They use outside billing agencies as stooges to do their dirty work for them. If hacks take the site down, your name, checking, and credit information goes up for all to see. If you like being spoofed with fake profiles, stolen pictures, and endless email addresses that end with xyz, or fooled with bogus phone numbers and 3 word messages, these sites are for you. If not, take the advice and stay away.
Pretty much the same business model as match.com
Essentially the only difference is the inclusion of racy and nude pics on this site
Please reference my review on match.com to get a better idea of how both companies operate.
WHAT??? 2,0 Average Rating for the most likely second best hook up site after CasualDating4u??? You guys must be kidding me! AFF is not only the BIGGEST HookUp Site you will find, it is also one of the best. As mentioned, beside CasualDating4u I have never seen ANY better site than AFF. Creating a profile and sending small text messages "Hey Hun, Wanna Get Laid?!" won't help you on ANY site at all.
One of the better hook up sites. Detailed questionnaire and preferences and testimonials of members. Friendly and undemanding men who are more gentlemanly than you would expect from a site like this and actually willing to meet and treat. I found it safe and fun and not a waste of time like other dating sites. Get exactly what you want.
Aff is the worst scamming, rip off, fake site out there. Beware – Stay away!
Popular scamming methods:
- within minutes of registering with AFF you get FAKE messages in your inbox from people supposedly looking to hook up with you ; when you reply – you get response that they did not send any message
- you get “flirts” but nobody viewed you ?
- you get flirts from members with no paid subscription (NOT possible)
- customer service is horrible, lying scamming enterprise
- you get special promotion & discount 20% off to upgrade, but “special” price for 30 days is greater then regular price for 30 days
- they send you email messages that someone wants to “meet you” but nobody even have seen your profile
- most of the time you see exactly the same profiles presented to you when log in, it is like these profiles are online for days and weeks
- FAKE, fake, fake site full of scammers, rip off artists and fake profiles
- There is absolutely NOTHING you can do there, without having to pay first; can not really see anyone, can not send or read messages, flirts,…nothing for free
It is too bad that there are no mark zero stars, so 1 star will have to do it, but even that is too much.
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This website is $#*!ing disgusting. It destroyed my marriage. I won't listen to the haters who say my sex life blew, well bc it didn't. Sometimes in life people have filthy habits. Absolute disgust. For all you single people out there get a real $#*!ing person stop playing on internet freaks. For all of you nasty ass trifling internet troll whores, go $#*! yourself.. Oh wait that's all your doing, and that's all you will ever do!!!
We have been members for over a year now and long ago did we realize that the majority of profiles are indeed fake. When you are not sifting through fake profiles you can enjoy the member cams with nine or ten creepy old $#*!s in dirty dark rooms and maybe a couple from guatemala $#*!ing in a tent. The only good thing about this site is the live cam girls which unfortunately is Cams.com and these companies are one and the same. AFF is hard to use,not easy to navigate, has an impressive number of nobody near you at all, really and is mostly for age groups 40-65. As far as a membership is concerned I regret paying for it.
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There are definitely some real people there, but I think the site is pretty worthless. I have met and played with one couple and one woman from AFF. I have also met and played with one other woman at a club that I recognized from the videos she posted on AFF...over 80 to be exact. I'm not sure if they give her some consideration for those but, if not, they should. I have also contacted and played with other people (two other couples) that I "met" through SLS even though I recognized their profile names or pics from AFF where I had seen them first. Both agreed SLS is a better site for actual meets. I probably will not re-up AFF
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