55 Reviews for AdultFriendFinder
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Can anyone tell me what rm_ means at the beginning of a users screen name on AFF? I've looked everywhere with no answers, and there seems to be a lot of members that do it.
The website is full of losers, that's why they are there. It emits a very negative atmosphere in my opinion. Dated a man that I met on there, Timber19509814. He told me the whole nine yards. I was taking it slow and easy but it seemed to actually be something. Then one day out of the blue he texts me and breaks it off, which is very rude to do that on text. Come to find out he's lying about his age, he's actually 13 years older than he says on his profile. Paul Spillers thinks he can do whatever he wants to whomever he wants because he is an attorney with Theus, Grisham, Davis & Leigh . This site is definitely a meat market, like bar hopping only from your home on the pc. If you are not the one for bar hopping to meet someone, you definitely don't want to cruise around on AFF. Peace & Positive Vibes!
Do not upgrade you can do a lot being a standard member alone. I had upgraded to gold membership on 5th of April , 4 days later the account was deactivated. When customer care was contacted by email , they replied that I must call the billing department and get the credit card verified. Firstly , I would have loved to stay discreet about it , secondly the toll free number is that of US, how thoughtful of them. The money has not been refunded , the account has been deactivated and I am not even sure if they are going to keep debiting money from my card. This is day light robbery.
I would rather jump off a bridge than use this site. If you are looking for something that is the real deal than you could try SlutBang.net.
Years ago, this site was actually worthwhile, and I met a few really cool girls. Of course that was then. Now, the site is totally pointless, as there are more bots and fake profiles than anything else. Don't waste your money, your time, or even the keystrokes on your profile...you won't get anywhere. If you're a current member, cancel your membership and shut these fools down.
I FIND This website useful
I didn't score with any chics, but there are attractive women on there. BE CAREFUL OF THE FRAUDULENT PROFILES. The site does a terrible job of screening the scammers. Site doesn't have the greatest design, but it's workable.
75% FAKE PROFILES with a high rate of people getting stds from other members
ever since penthouse bought aff out this site has gone to $#*! fast. there are a lot of people on this site spreading stds and lying about it. the amount of overweight women in comparison to fit women is about 99:1 (yes for every ONE fit woman there are 99 FAT one's) the majority of the unicorn profiles are fakes, the majority of the SBM profiles are either liars, fakes, flakes, wife $#*!ers with no condoms or all in all men who will say anything just to $#*! then when they show up they CAN'T $#*! for $#*! and have zero personality. the majority of the couples are as usual CLIQUE they stick to what and who they know and even when they do set up dates with you they will NOT SHOW UP and will never apologize for it.
my advice, stay away, don't waste your money because as a free member you have NO ABILITY to do anything. they will spam you to death as a free member with the most beautiful of women, men and couples trust it is just CATFISH profiles. the STAFF are required to make and maintain FAKE PROFILES just to keep your interest and it works for some.
I was skeptical but decided to try it out. I was pleasantly surprised that this site is full of real women. Guys some advice - dont show pictures of your $#*! - act like a gentlemen, the same if some guy wanted to date your mother, sister or daughter, and you might be surprised at the responses. I hooked up with two very pretty and very nice ladies from my area that i still see..Other than this site others i have found seem to be all fake...
Just a waste of time..... I like Hookups.ws better.
I tried out a few sites at the same time and this site was by far the most money grubby and the saddest girls. I was disappointed.
I'd recommend pof.com (free) or, if you really need the adult angle, adultswithbenefits.com. But with adultswithbenefits.com you need to be voted in, so you better be good looking for that site.
I swear I think the staff is sending all these fake emails on this site, not one real active member. What a rip off! A much better alternative is XratedSingles.com.
If your a good looking dude like me, don't sign up! Its not a scam, but its all ugly fat chicks, lol, I was hounded by 50 fat hoes emailing me, and I was like, Hell No, I'm not paying to talk to these bizatches! I went to the bar instead, and picked up the waitress, good times yall!
Biggest mistake of my life was going on this site and meeting a woman with missing teeth and a tendency towards violence. This site is filled with criminals, sociopaths, and druggies. Stay away from it.
AFF is not worth the money. I was bombarded by fake bots and sent countless emails, to eventually pay to find out that all the profiles were fake. Yeah I would recommend using a site like XratedSingles.com, I had good success with them.
I had a 6 months experience with AFF, with a gold status membership.
AFF is clearly a genuine dating site with tons of real profiles.
I got several contacts, conversations and dates that end up nicely.
But... man! That was hard.
Let's be honest about what's going on in dating websites, AFF or any other.
Men outnumber women by a ration of at least 25:1 which means that women are receiving tons of contacts and can be very selective.
For average guys (I'm middle age, not tall and not striking) the competition is severe. That's really about natural selection!
You guys must know that many girls are registred to have a look only, and a bit of sensations, but aren't really ready for encounters. Then plenty of women are swinging with their partner, and are not searching single guys, except outstanding ones. Then many women are about... women.
And, there are a lot of fakes and bots indeed.
However, if you want to have a chance, you must take it very seriously and work hard on it with dedication and patience. You need to build a real appealing profile. Forget the blow up picture of you $#*!, or the picture in the mirror. Get nice photographs, outdoor, made with a decent camera. Write something cool about you. Don't tell you want a hot girl to get laid. They know it already. So think about what's specific about yourself that would turn on the girl you will contact.
Stay polite, funny, using good orthograph and grammar, be original, a bit $#*!y but not a jerk.
As a conclusion, I'd repeat what other already wrote here: if you're an not successful in "real life" you won't be on the Net. Dating website could not compensate any lack of social skills. Improve your cognitive abilities, get in good physical shape, improve your sense of humour and self-confidence.
Than enter the field and chance it...
I had been a member once before with no luck, but after seeing the site metioned on a news story I decided to give it another try, nothing. The site has very limited local members, most of them swinger couples looking for females or "select" males. I will not try this site again, a waste of money.
I've been on the site for a week now. I've hooked up with one single girl and two girls while their partners watched (straight only). Let's be realistic here. I'm 29, very toned/athletic, and am very well hung. I have brown hair, blue-green eyes, and am probably a 7.5 - 8/10 realistically. If you aren't on the higher levels of attraction with a large 3rd leg you probably won't have any luck.
Of the people I met the single girl contacted me, one of the couples contacted me, and I contacted one of the couples. The one I contact was really hot. She was so hot she actually won a contest on the site.
The single girl wasn't too attractive but I already made the drive out there so whatever. The other girl that had a b/f was ok. Blonde hair, blue eyes, fake boobs, decently smooth stomach.
the site is what it is, i saw on the news the whole group of sites they have has claimed bancruptsy. the problem i had was i made a new email address for this site which ive never used elsewhere, just for registration and one day later im getting 30 spams a day. which means they sell email addresses to spam companies for money.
every day 30 spam emails. its very irritating.
Thieves, complete and utter thieves stay away from this site;
AFF is the site where fat women go to have sex with skinny men, or guys that hit the gym every day of the week. If you're an average build average looking guy you'll get turned down even by HUGE women, because there are guys that are 170lbs that are willing to have sex with them. AFF is a meat market. Great for girls that are fat and ugly to get laid, but horrible for the average guy! Unless you are a skinny guy with a thing for fat chicks stay away from this terrible site!
This site is crap...just filled with a bunch of fake profiles. Good luck on getting your money back from them as well! I would recommend DateorPlay.com as it is 100% free with real profiles.
This site isn't a scam. But its definitely not easy. I'm a 24 year old male, in great shape, and not to sound conceited, but I'm not hard on the eyes. I've been on the site 12 1/2 months. Over this period of time I've had sex with 5 women. All 5 were beautiful and all 5 looked like their pictures. With that being said though, you have no idea how many emails I had to send to various women. And like a post I read about adult dating sites...you have to be original and appealing. It doesn't happen over night. Through my experiences so far though, this has been the best site that I've experienced. Yes there are plenty of fake profiles...and the statement "If it's too good to be true, then it probably is.." applies to some of the profiles. My suggestion: if you are an overweight, anti-social guy trying to find a way to get laid...this is NOT for you. Guys out number the girls easily 20 to 1. But if you are in decent shape, aren't hard on the eyes, and can actually carry on a conversation in person, you might have a chance. Case in point, this site will not give you what you don't already have...
This site is real. My wife has a profile on it and has met up with single guys. You guys who say it is a scam have got to realize the guys on here way out number the woman. My wife gets a ton of e-mails and no, she won't respond to all of them. She responds to the ones that meet her body type and read her profile. And if you are a single guy and are not in great shape, your odds will be very low as there are a lot of cut guys on this site. And if she doesn't get a recent face/shirtless torso pic, she deletes the e-mail. She has more problems with guys who don't look like their pics and say they will meet but chicken out at the last minute. Also, we met and partied with one of AFF's Marketing Reps at a Swinger Convention in South Beach in 2012. It is a real site.
I did meet some legit contacts, but damn it was not worth the effort. There are heaps of totally fake profiles, photos lifted from other sites on the web and obvious ones that are used to entice and I have little doubt that they are paid shills. Some are sex industry workers recruiting, but seems to be a lot of nutters just collecting pictures. Overall, the site is not worth the lost time on scams, shams and idiots
Sorry liars, that's it. Sure maybe you will meet a real girl, in 4 years I met ONE. The rest, want money, prostitutes, most won't even reply to messages. But they send fake ads to entice, it's all about money, nothing more.
When your membership expires, you'll get flirts and emails that are totally bogus. I know, because I got a 'flirt' from a couple right after my membership expired, and so I emailed them to see if they had actually done that. They answered back that they had not, and they themselves had 'sent' emails to other members when they actually hadn't. Also, do the math and figure out their phony "Buy and 3 month Gold Membership and get 1 month FREE", scam. They are charging you for all 4 months. There is NOTHING free about it. Of course, if your $#*! is hard and you're hoping to hook up, you'll probably fork out the bucks like I did. It's pretty much a waste of time...
Complete and total scam. They fill your site mailbox with bogus emails from fake women, especially when your membership is about to expire. Their instant messaging service works maybe 25% of the time and is the largest complaint from all in the chat rooms. They are known to create fake accounts to generate interest. The majority of women on cam are soliciting from pay per view websites. Don't waste your time.
Thought it was a good way to hookup with women.boy that was a mistake. This was my first time with any type of site like this.turns out its nice to look at but it is all phony.tell me this how do u get emails and no one has view ur profile. 3 days I had them removed from email STAY AWAY FROM THIS SITE NOTHING REALISTIC ABOUT IT!
This site uses shady billing practices...signed up with for a one month premium membership, and did not see that the option where you can pay for standard members to contact you DEFAULTED to the highest rate you could buy. The final billing page before I purchased said 29.95, but I got charged that PLUS 107.40 for this option that I could not see and did not select. STAY AWAY FROM THIS SITE, it's such bad news.
I created a profile of one of the AFF sites ....... next thing i know im getting calls and txts from loads of local gay men .... As it turns out they made an EXACT copy of the profile i made for the one site (including quite obvious identifying information).... and added it as a new user "profile" to their other site DiscreteGayDating.
Ive been getting calls at all hours, even at 3am in the mornning. I have contacted AFF to ask them to remove it, but im not getting any replys.
I live and do buisness in an extremely small and closenit community. Given the fact that i could easily be 'recognised', I am extemely anxious that this could have massive financial and personal implications.
At best this method of harvesting information to create new 'profiles' is deplorable and highly unethical. At worst illegal.
What a pack of filthy cheating skanky whorehands!........What can i do?... Should i be looking at legal recourse?
you might meet a girl on here. she might even be close. but she is a cam girl or a hooker.where you pay her she stripes for you, or she gets you to verify yourelf. you join a site for alot she gets a commission. either way like all other adult dating and XXX dating sites it is pure b.s.
You can pay for a Silver or Gold membership and meet people for sex. They might be attractive or ugly, but that depends on what you want. I feel that the memberships are too expensive. You have to have a membership to respond to people. If you have a membership, you can pay extra so people without memberships can reply to your messages. It's all money. They guarantee that you will have sex with someone or your money back, what they don't tell you is that you'd have to have sex with ANYONE on the site be they fat, ugly or stinky. They have chatrooms and they have forums. They won't let you put your email address on your profile so people can contact you easier. If you don't have a membership, then you can only reply to 1 or 2 people every 24HRS! So if you reply to someone at 11PM Monday, then you have to wait until 11PM Tuesday.
so slowly log in or registered
Total scam!! Hott profiles of "women" that will never meet you, regardless of what you put in your profile.. I was a sucker, so you dont have to be one!
Spam spam ... and more spam?
Most of the 'legit' girls in my area only mess with females so it was a one way street for the most part.
all fake just like the rest
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I bought the Gold membership, and so far all I got was women that direct me to other sites so I can "help out their model status" and then meet up for nsa. They first say its only one site for like 1-3$ and it ends up having to be 3 or more, im not sure cause i never went passed the one. its been over a month and i still have yet to meet one person that isnt a "working" on there.
My experience so far (after 1 month) is not so good. I think the idea was good. Say what you will about the idea of searching for other adults with 'adult themes' in mind but having a site for this is not a bad idea.
But the problem I have been having is that the only contact I get are from people with alterior motives...'Western Girls' as I call them
I am giving this no stars. I am fed up with these fake websites that look professional and glossy but turn out to be total scams. I keep reading this is a excellent site but it is NOT!!!. Whenever I have got even the inkling of interest the emails stop and on occasions these ladies send me personal email details then when I send email she says she needs to verify my real identity and gives me another link to go into which is a webcam site or pornsite. so total false site avoid like the plague
This is the first dating site I tried. It seemed mostly populated by girls about 20 years old who apparently could not afford much clothing. They were sooooooooo interested in a 60-plus, overweight, bald, amputee! And so many looked exactly the same in their "photo albums". And so many have Master's Degrees in Transportation Engineering - this is the best they can do? I have a better imagination than that. A complete waste of time and fortune. Stay away if you are a real human being.
absolute BS!!! Only responses are automated and obviously fake. Most of the people aren't anything but Free members who cannot contact you......unless you pay an extra $25 or so a month on top of your normal fee's. Even left email address and no responses except the fake produced ones from the site. Rubbish!
This site was nothing like it's sister site, FriendFinder.com. I signed up for this site being moved to a new area and in hopes of meeting women to date. This site was full of nothing but pornography and virus ridden profiles. After exchanging e-mails with what I thought was a woman for a number of weeks, I was asked by this "woman" on the site to help them out and ship them money to nigeria because they "lost their wallet". Knowing better I declined and discontinued communications with this person. That was not the last time something like that happened. Multiple, and when I say multiple I mean nearly every woman I spoke to on that site only had one goal, and that was to sign me up to an actual porn site. This site is a total scam, stay far away from adult friend finder.com
This site is a scam. There is a reason they do not provide a telephone number. I called customer service after searching the web for a number, and the automated voice said my wait would be at least 40 minute. I signed up with my credit card for $240.00 I was online browsing and the site kicked me off and would not let me sign back in. 4 Emails to customer service no responce.
like all the others its about drawing the last Dollar off you, sign up and pay for this and that, but at least some of the profiles are real i have actually met with a couple of them, so if its the cybe thing your after this one does work.
It's the largest "adult" dating site that actually has real women. You can tell that because most of them are ugly.
During our brief encounter with this site, we chose to renew our account 1 to 3 months at a time, but decided at the beginning of 2010 we were no longer interested in the membership.
The problem started after checking our most recent bank statement and finding that AFF has continued to bill us this entire time, despite us being inactive on the website.
After notifying AFF regarding the error, they claimed we chose the "auto renewal" when in reality THEY chose the auto renewal, we missed the option of "opt out auto renewal", thus costing us 6 months of unwanted and unknown fees.
We expressed our disproval of their "auto renewal" system as unethical and state our account clearly shows zero activity for the past 6 months. Their response was, "the auto renewal is a common practice among these kinds of sites and there was nothing unethical about it".
We recommend you print all your receipts when dealing with this site as well as go through the work of having to find the "opt out auto renewal" option in order to prevent "in reality" unauthorized charges.
We believe this is a way for businesses to collect money in an unscrupulous fashion. We recommended AFF change their system to a "opt in" option, not "opt out". Too many victims miss this fine detail, which we believe is what these sites are counting on in order to make extra money from unsuspecting customers.