adam4adamReviews 52

Used to be a tolerable waste of time finding people to meet. Now it's over run with advertisements. Impossible to use with constant pop up ads.

I'm very upset because someone else reported me on Adam4Adam for being mean to them and then I got suspended while they stalked me online.I am a gay man living with HIV and they have a ton of haters on this site.People who are racist in the LGBTQ community, people in the LGBTQ community hating people living with HIV and people in the black community hating other blacks because of their insecurities.I was suspended on Adam4Adam for being mean to someone after I was blocked by another person calling me a weirdo.I have done nothing bad to anyone and this is the things I get?

I will never forget this I'm glad they suspended me because I don't want to get back on this stupid website EVER again!

Waste of time.

Here is what's wrong... 20 times a day a get hit on 18 of them live in Cheney KS. I live in Boston MA 1637 miles from Cheney KS and according to the 2021 census there are approximately 2170 people who live there. For the amount of A4A email responses, the population would have to be at least *******, larger then the population of the city of Atlanta. A4A is not blocking folks from West Africa who have created at least 95% of these profiles

It used to be that if you used the app on an iPhone that you would only see pics deemed safe for work and any so-called "dirty" words would be blocked. This is due to Apple rules about apps not being pornographic sites so I didn't think that much about it. You could just use m.adam4adam.com in the browser instead and then everything was visible. Starting about a week ago now even that site is blocking valid content and it gets impossible to read the profile. It's a damn Sex site so why do you block these words and photos? What else do can you call it? And what the hell is a masseur on here but a paid prostitute! Why would you brag about your body and $#*! size if you're just going to massage me? Because you're not. You are a PAID PROSTITUTE! Then there are all the 30 yr olds (so they say) messaging me with no pics and no profile info. SCAMMERS all over the place. I changed my subscription to not renew and I will be done with it after it expires in a month. Too bad. It was decent until all these new rules.

The site is involved with Prostitution. The Hustle on the site tries to push all the men in their 50s, 60s and 70s on every person on the site. Only join if you are a drug dealer to hit them back in the wallet!

Why would anyone pay to subscribe when the site has so many on-going glitches (that have been occurring for decades). Customer Support are robots who do not even read emails, they just cut and past generic responses. Lastly, half the profiles on the site are scammers. Would urge anyone contemplating buying membership to think twice!

Someone messaged me on Adam with "Alaye" I Googled and learned it's code word for Nigerian scammers. And I thought to pretend to be a scammer to get the scammer to say something to report his sorry! Boom... my account got suspended! ADAM STAFF, first have some decency to reply to a paid user of the past 10 to 12 years. It's just horrible customer service. Second, one strike, you are out!? What a bull policy. And which one of you gets to make that determination? I bet someone who was mocked & ridiculed a lot as a teen! THIRD, given much better choices like [s n i f f i e s] I am in fact happy I got suspended. You saved me $$$. Hope to see you guys reverse your draconian rules. Or don't and get wiped out from competition!

Scammers galore just a waste of time app yea I am overweight but I am not dead yet and guys rather hit up chicks with $#*!s avoid Kansas Cheney Sedrick area they are all scammers guys asking me for gas money especially when they are only 30 miles away that's weird too many party and play on this app which usually means meth tired of being hit up with guys with no pictures come on it's 2023 have a face picture no I will not go on google chat or WhatsApp or I won't give out my cell number just a waste of time app flakes and fakes sadly adam4 adam once was a very good app about 4 years ago with good guys I don't trust the guys on this app as a lot of them are trying to get personal information out of you just a real disappointment and the administration doesn't do a damn thing to fix the problem!

This site is nothing more then a site for criminals to wait for thier prey to be brought so they can run their scams, prostitution and then we can get started on Nicaragua, Africa and other 3rd world countries, the only entertainment to be had on this site is playing with the scamers, while sitting on the PC to find out who they are and who's pictures are the they are using, no use in reporting anything they run multiple accounts, and will have three more before the one is deleted, peole that don't want to provide a profile picture should by Sent kicking rocks, profiles should have to be verified with 7 days or they are deleted, in short do some investigation on who is using your platform..

The website is in need of an update.

Suggestions:
- Make it so the page doesn't refresh every time you change the location in the Search page
- Add sexuality (gay, bisexual, straight but curious, trans, etc.) as a profile feature and Search criteria
- Add a check off box for "Members with FACE pictures only"
- Fix picture uploader so when a picture is uploaded it isn't turned sideways
- Under My Account > General, make it so that when you change your home location it doesn't show you're X hundreds or thousands of miles away in your new city (e.g. - I could live in LA, and move to NYC, then when I change my home location to NYC, other guys in NYC see my profile, but then click on it to see it say 3000 miles away when I might only be 5 miles in real life).
- Remove obviously fake profiles
- Remove duplicate profiles
- Remove ancient profiles that have not logged on in a long time (maybe over a year)
- Change the Alert Sound for messages to something less jarring/harsh
- Add a search bar function to the Mailbox so you can find certain messages or messages from certain users easily
- Make the Member Search 3 characters instead of 4.
- Hire more programmers who specialize in UI/UX

Started transitioning a year ago been on adam for 6 years started using as man tried creating a new profile with my main picture fully clothed. Been denied three times now no message from support. My pic was tasteful and i see people in constant violation of there the g rated main picture policy and nothing happens there $#*! and $#*! pics stay up forever zero repercussions if you post a picture fully clothed of progress as a trans woman your picture is not approved and adam4adam will not confirm or deny wether or not there anti transgender

Been a member for 3 weeks with no issues and no violation of policy. This morning I try to log in and it tells me "Wrong Username or Password!" which is impossible because my username and password are saved on my PC.
So I try to recover my password using the Hotmail email address I used to create the account and it says "EMAIL address is not registered.". This is ridiculous because that same Hotmail inbox is full of messages from Adam4Adam. How could it be "not registered"?
I am pretty sure the administrator is deleting profiles of a certain kind that do not fit his idea of site members.

UPDATE: After posting here, Adam4Adam reached out and addressed the issue. I revised my feedback score. Thanks.

Adam4Adam is the worst maintained gay social website I have ever attempted to use. Unlike other sites such as Manhunt and DaddyHunt, you can't really hide and block another member. The only block that there is prevents them from contacting you via the message system. When you block them, you can no longer access their account or see their profile photo. HOWEVER, they can still see yours, they can still search and find your account and they can still surf any non-private photo. When you view the member grid to view other members, you can still see their presence. The photo on their profile? Oh yeah! A big 'X'. What is this? The site is consistently interrupting access to your messages with the excuse they are currently upgrading to make things more spectacular. A couple hours later... same ol' same ol' crap. Personally, as an IT engineer I don't think they want you to truly block members presence because that reduces the number of members in your view and thus affects their agreement and terms with the advertisers on the site.

I have been a regular member of Adam4Adam.com since 1999. Two weeks ago, my IP address was blocked for an hour. The next week it as blocked for several hours. Today it has been blocked for several hours again. I am not a spammer and I have not violated their TOS. I have completed the unblock captcha and written several emails to support - all without response. This is beginning to seem discriminatory, and may require legal action to address the issue.