Fetster

Apparently the site is completely US-centric; my "IP was not recognised," so these clowns wanted me to send two personally identifying photos to somehow prove that I am "real".

If you clowns are THAT scared of someone finding out what you're doing, you may well need to find something else to get into.

Absolute trash site.

Joined. Over the first 24-48 hours 'met' 6 women. 4 were immediately identifiable as frauds right on their site. One with clearly fake photos taken off the Internet. Found the first with a simple Google Image search.
The 5th chatted with on Google chat. She quickly revealed herself as some kind of problem. Attempting a google voice call and video meeting her number and account were marked Spam by Google. Blocked her. She tried to contact me again on Fetster with a different account. Blocked her both places. When I tried to log back into to Fetster discovered they had blocked my account. Guess the scammer had me blocked.
They sent me an email demanding I provide multiple photos of my self holding up a sign. Ridiculous, that does not prove I am real, and came across to me as an identity scam. Of course they provide no other way to contact them.
The 6th? Turned out to be a sex chat worker trying to drum up business.

I think this is the most active bdsm social networking/dating site.
If you are a girl, you will get plenty of messages even if you don't have a picture.
People actually read your profile. I rarely get messages from people who don't match my ''looking for'' description.
Most of the users are from America. If you live elsewhere, it might be hard to find a partner. Unless you are interested in online relations.

Fetster once was a decent place to go, but unfortunately is now the bastion of scammers trying to get into your wallet and men posting endless dic pics. The solo admin of the site will delete your profile if you even think anything negative about the site, as he runs the site as his personal playground for BDSM contacts. It is quite apparent by the scammers he lets on the site that there is some sort of behind the scenes agreement going on. Seeing as the site is free and NOT adware supported, how else does he pay for the bandwidth?

Being a free site, fetster raises your hopes up high, but they quickly fell for me. Signing up for fetster for the first time, I was ready to meet someone, specifically, a girl, who I wanted to develop a good relationship with. However, I didn't get a good first impression, as the first message I received was from a fake account who was deleted. I then began my search. I found some who I messaged but they didn't get back to me. Finally, when I thought I found the one, boy was I wrong. I was almost scammed of everything. I vowed to never return. I decided to give fetster a second chance when this girl who found my name emailed me. This time, she coaxed me into giving out my address to her, and it so happened that I was still living with my parents. She sends me all this stuff claiming me as her "soul mate" when we haven't even met irl. She was just desperate. The last straw was when she asked me for a whole $2,000. When I tell her that there was nothing I could do, she turns on me, but I blocked her. Fast forward to 2020 and then I find myself back at fetster. This time, I discover the darker side, trafficking. I found several girls who were coaxed into becoming slaves for a high pay. I tried to persuade this one girl that she was human as had free will, but she was already brainwashed. I was saddened by this. I did find this one lady who we talked every day. We went as far as exchanging pics and planning to meet. Sadly, she disappeared. I took a break from fetster, until this year. Nothing changed. All the girls who I met were financially behind and tried to make me their bank. This one girl even secretly made me her guardian without my consent! I blocked her right then and haven't heard from her sense. The last thing that sealed the deal was another girl who just kept asking me for money for things, especially when she wanted to come and see me. Things didn't work out. She didn't have the money to fix her car the first time and then didn't have the money to pay a fine for an unfair stop by the cops. Then, she persuades me to send her money so she could invest in gold! And then the agent has my info in their database! All of these stories of mine prove that if you're a guy, don't even bother with fetster, even if you think you have the one, don't let your guard down. I'm done with fetster and never going back.

In the little time that I've been on the site, I've met some interesting persons that share the same values and ideas as I do and I hope to come across more.