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Hi my wife is 57yrs old and i am 51yrs old. she was a recovering addict when i met in 2001. i married her in 2008 and tried to provide a home for her but she has always had this obsession of collecting men phone numbers. this year i recently discovered thru her girlfriend that she was dating some one at the bowling alley we both attended. she has been seeing this person for well over a year and collecting money from them. when ever i approached her for sex she would make up an excuse and then say that she doesn't trust me. then at one point she insist that i wear protection. now that we are separated, she disappears constantly and when i call to invite her out- she will have me sitting outside her home for 45minutes until she decides to show up. and she constantly asks for money. i tried to sit and talk to her but she becomes confrontational and clams up and then she wants her space. i am trying to find out whats going on but i am confussed. i asked er if she ever loved me and she just holds her head between her hands and stare down at the ground. what can i do to reach her. i am open to any advice. i overhead her several times talking to a man in our home while we lived together but when i confronted her she started yelling it's a lie. somehow i feel she believes her own lies... Hi my wife is 57yrs old and i am 51yrs old. she was a recovering addict when i met in 2001. i married her in 2008 and tried to provide a home for her but she has always had this obsession of collecting men phone numbers. this year i recently discovered thru her girlfriend that she was dating some one at the bowling alley we both attended. she has been seeing this person for well over a year and collecting money from them. when ever i approached her for sex she would make up an excuse and then say that she doesn't trust me. then at one point she insist that i wear protection. now that we are separated, she disappears constantly and when i call to invite her out- she will have me sitting outside her home for 45minutes until she decides to show up. and she constantly asks for money. i tried to sit and talk to her but she becomes confrontational and clams up and then she wants her space. i am trying to find out whats going on but i am confussed. i asked er if she ever loved me and she just holds her head between her hands and stare down at the ground. what can i do to reach her. i am open to any advice. i overhead her several times talking to a man in our home while we lived together but when i confronted her she started yelling it's a lie. somehow i feel she believes her own lies...