How do you know the lady you are talking too who say I want to meet you and be with you, Is not saying that to 100 other people? How can you real know when you have done all the background work to be sure your not being scammed? How many other guys does she say I read your profile and I love what I saw and darling I want to be with you. How many other men has she said this too in the last 24 hours, can you really know?

asked by Barry C. on 3/4/15

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I have posted before this site is not even close to reality. I attempted to visit China and my girl said she would not do so with the site. This is right what I do as an attorney, I will coordinate with Site Jamer as Plaintiffs. I will either set up a separate intake on people defrauded or site jammer will do so and they should be named as Plaintiffs since they are protecting us and people like us. So lets do it guys they are probably exploiting this attractive but very poor women and living in mansions here and in China. I would love to levy on their Porches, Bentleys, Testa, Ferrari (hehe). Danilo Becerra 2360 Suite A Huntington Drive, San Marino Calif. 91103. I can do this with just one person willing to stand up to these guys. I have sucessfully (very very successful sued British Petroleum in Texas, Uniion Pacific, Bridge Stone, County Sheriff LA, City Police, Immigration Service, etc. So I will contact our site and see how they would like to proceed.

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Thumbnail of user deidrew5

Try to create more than 1 accounts. The more the better. Add the same contacts to all of your accounts. In time, you'll get letters from the same women to all your a accounts. Some of them even use the same letters interchangeably.

I posted some pictures here.
Check them out.

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Thumbnail of user nileshs8

Thank you Richard. I'm trying not to get scammed by AsianDate.com. They know I'm onto them due to several encounters with their customer service. So far they've given me a false transaction which I called them on, they've had to admit that they don't provide the steallar service they say they do, and now some woman I've interacted with is out of the blue sending me nude pics of herself without prompting and a complete departure from her elegant first email to me. Did you ever watch the show 'Ridiculous'? LOL. Please look for more information on my blog neilshreedhars blog on Wordpress. I cover AsianDate.com there. Good luck all. This is a tricky one to wend through. It's a mine that most might want to navigate away from. Their personnel has pat answers for most things, but can't answer if you have actually contacted their customer service and gotten no reply. Then they reply after the fact after first explaining their expensive charges are valid due to the 'high level of service' they provide... What high level of service? Mostly fake and a mineful which racks up credit card costs in no time is my conclusion.

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To answer the original question: You cannot know apart from doing some detailed tricky things with multiple accounts. You will have to use your judgment. I think as my original post says, it is a mix of real and fake. If you were adamant on using this site then maybe take the trip. You will actually spend less money and meet someone for real.

Apart from that, I would strongly recommend a different site where you are assured there is no formal scam. You still have to find a good person and match on another site just like dating in your home country.

Last, I would not be overly surprised if they write more than one guy. Most everyone on here does the same until they choose. The question is just if she is being real with you. They meet lots of fake or not-serious guys, as well.

But, my original points about the site stand and I spent red-faced amounts of money and I hope that I can help someone else avoid doing the same for nothing.

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Thumbnail of user willy102

There is an easy way to find out. Create five or six yahoo or other free mail accounts and create five or six different asiandate accounts (I have done this). You will find about 80 percent of the letters you get in one account will also show up in at least one other account. Around 50 percent will show up in all of your profiles. I have never paid for a letter or bothered tracking down an Asiandate. Their sister site in Ukraine has many profiles with pictures on VK.com, When you contact then on VK, with a copy of the letter THEY SENT you, they block your contact with them. So yes you can know. On Asiandate and its sister sites, the odds are about 80 percent that you are not the only recipient of an email. How might you know your email is an exception? 1) She tries to help you identify her contact information. 2) she discusses DETAILS from your profile that are not likely on every mans profile. Other than that odds are the person in the profile did not know she sent you a letter and that the letter was sent to multiple people.

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Thumbnail of user bobu4

Facebook is blocked in China. Good thinking though... there are a few good girls on Asiandate... a few. Most are fake... don't waste your money, Asiandate is a scam.

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Thumbnail of user raymonds29

A god place for them to steal every penny they can. Just a crooked bunch of liars.

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Thumbnail of user angelb35

I was one of the workers on that site, and maybe i chatted with you before, lol.

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Thumbnail of user seanj58

I been getting multiple letters from some of the asian women on this site as they have been asking me to go to wechat but wechat is complete Chinese encrypted and no way of understand what to even click on cause its all Chinese symbols so i said in my profile saying that if you are a real person you should have a Facebook page to be reached on so far ive found out that some of them have Facebook but their response are slow when you finally have found them and send them a message but you don't get a quick response back.

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Thumbnail of user billl215

How can one take an advertisement like this seriously when a lawyer can't even use proper grammar and spelling. How well is he going to represent you? Just saying...

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Thumbnail of user docv5

I was totally fooled by Asian Date and if you're looking for someone to testify against them I'be been accumulating evidence have hundreds of letters in customer service showing just how deceptively they handle letters and replies! I lost thousands! This happened after I get divorced and I was desperately seeking another love to save me from the heartache and they capitalized on it big time! They are ruthless bastards!
Reach me at doc.vega@yahoo.com I took down your business address. I have a review here under Doc Vega.

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Thumbnail of user luciang10

I have encountered a few 'suspect' woman. You just need to use common sense. Use your Spidey Sense. If it doesn't feel right then it probably isn't. I joined this site in july '14. Now i have met (in person) the woman i will marry. The best advice i can give is this. Try to arrange a call asap. Get her phone number and email. Also open a QQ account and Wechat account. These are poplular FREE chatting, messaging, video, email services used in china. I now video chat with my lady when she is in her home in Shanghai for free every day. There is really no way, initially, to be absolutely sure if your lady is real or a Douche like Angel B. Until you are able to do these other things. Just beware of professional pictures. And try to video chat. Good luck

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Thumbnail of user richardn26

This is CaptainRich and I reviewed AsianDate.com... Here is an update. This site is a waste of money. If you are looking for a real relationship with real women and there is NO fees to read emails and respond, talk on the net, exchange data and truly achieve your goals without the expense and hassle check out ChinaLoveMatch.net IT IS THE REAL DEAL!

I am in communication with a number of women and proceeding through the process. The creator of this site is a Brit married to an Asian woman who created a legit access web site. You will not be disappointed. I paid $139 for the entire year and my only complaint is that, very soon, I might need to use anymore.;-)

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Thumbnail of user alexz17

I will tell you a little secret what I did. I met a nice girl through a dating site and searched for her on Facebook. I've found her there and knew she was for real. We had a very nice contact and we got to know each other better. One day I went over to meet her and now she is my girlfriend. If you find a girl, search on Facebook to know if she is for real. It worked for me, and she is not after my money! In fact, she paid several times for me and even bought me things.

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