The site itself may have useful information, but the community is a collection of harpies that get off on out snarking each other. They act as if they've never made a singe mistake in their entire existence, but if the OP has they'll relish in tearing her to shreds. If you're not exactly like them everything about you is wrong and your children will be horrifically damaged because of it. Don't ever ask for real advice, you won't get it. Don't ask for support from your fellow moms either. It doesn't exist in that rat's nest.