If you want real women, use Seek4Match
Or some other European sites, they are way more efficient, legit and less greedy. I think the most important part of work of a dating site should be to eliminate scam. The site I mentioned really does this job well. Idates is a complete opposite: they make profit on scamming people. IDates is anything but ethical. Don't believe these "matches from your area", they are totally fake. Somehow they are getting away with making up fake profiles just to con people into getting a paid membership. You are buried in computer generated messages as long as you keep paying. But it never gets real, because there are no real people behind this dirty game.