What most of the other reviews on here say about xxxmatch.com (fake profiles, deceptive business practices, etc.) is 100% true. Stay away from this site at ALL costs! Also, if you just joined and would like a refund, contact the billing provider who charged your credit card (Epoch.com in my case) and go through them for the refund. I didn't have to even give them a reason for the refund (though I was certainly ready to) - just told them I wanted one, and since it was pretty soon after the sign-up date, they just gave it to me.