Patience K.

So I join this site because one of my clients meets his wife on there was exciting
I join I received tons of messages super exciting so I just two of card to pay for my 23 dollars one week membership but my card keeps declining
So I give my sister money yesterday to use her card and pay for my membership because there a nice gentleman on there I really like
Pressure my sister pressure my sister pressure my sister to pay for me. I finally gave her my information from the site to login and pay for me. Finally payment went through. I'm dancing and singing. I'm happy I went on the sites account not pay for yet keep asking questions and went to know what going on
Boom I get an email my account is pay for super excited right yes you right only to see my account is suspended what why do they pay? I'm so happy. Keep seeing the email. Keep asking why is my account suspended keep asking why is my account suspended I just pray what's going on another boom you get to wait for 48 hrs oh wow now sad!
How can another human being treat another human being so bad so poor so poorly? Wow I'm just surprise I was looking for something different I'm a Christian I was trying to convert to Muslim.
Now I'm shock. How can I get my money back? Can somebody please help me? What do I do?