I recently joined and I also received lots of emails from good looking successful men who are so rich, yet are not full members. That is completely taking the Michael. I could not reply or read my messages without paying a huge fee. So, I emailed the guys back - you can do this if you go into their profile and send a quick message. I let them know that I was a standard member etc and could not read their messages. Needless to say not ONE of these guys that I replied to has replied back to me. Yet, I'm still receiving lots of emails from other good looking guys. I do feel it is a scam and I'm so glad I came across this review!