I think people go on dating sites and expect something impossible or too good to be true, I have visited several date sites and I believe you need to spend with people to give yourself a chance to get to like them. I met up with several and they turned out to be not what I expected but then suddenly I talked to someone I talked before and then stopped. Now we have been together 3 months and really happy and hope to meet in real life after all this is over. She has made such a difference to my world. My advice is to be yourself and friendly and not to judgmental as someone who you think is not your type could turn out to be the one as I have found out.