As a guy, if you are looking for a middle aged woman who wishes to be married, this site could be helpful. There are a TON of empty profiles, but the few in which people have taken the time to fill them out are essentially online ads from women looking for serious long term relationships leading to marriage. Women can join this site for free, naturally men have to pay. If you are looking for casual dating, this is NOT the site for you. Many of the ads seem a bit desperate, but it is what it is. I am not a fan, but for someone seeking a woman looking to be married, This site MIGHT be helpful.