I am not a member of the Cupid sites. I was going to sign up, but then I read the reviews. All the Cupid sites are dodgy as hell. I mean, you need to pay in order to use the sites properly, but when you go through all the women on there, you see that 98% of them have standard accounts. Yeah, I understand that not everyone is going to pay, but there would be more women with a membership if they were legit. Which means they are fake accounts. On AsianDating in particular you get spammed with messages to make you buy a membership. Most profiles only have 1/2 photos, which is already a red flag. I'm not saying ALL profiles are fake but expect 80% (at least) to be. You MIGHT find someone legit to chat with, but you'll need to go through hell first.