KK W.

I've been a sugar baby on and off for about 4 years. I've been in a very successful 3 year arrangement with a generous, established gentlemen, so I know that it's very possible to have great luck on the site. However, since I'm single again and searching, I've come to realize the quality of people on this site has gone to $#*!. There's too many scammers, liars, naive girls who know nothing about this, and men who prey on them.

Key points for the men:

1. I understand that not every male is going to be utterly rich and have a high budget for a good woman, but don't lie about it to impress these girls and then be a complete fake. Being open will help you find the girl who suits you, (and your budget.)
2. Don't expect the most from a woman but offer very little in return, in no way is that "mutually beneficial." That's being a cheapskate. If you think you can get any woman you want for free, then go on eHarmony!
3. Stop searching for the young, naive and desperate. You should have high standards just like these girls should. Lack of standards on both ends is what really drove the site to $#*! in the first place.
4. Always remain a gentleman, the right girl will come around and reward you. Don't scare off a girl who could wind up being the right one for you. There will always be trouble, scams, and lies on both ends, you just need to try your best to avoid it. The right girl will be worth the previous trouble.

Key points for women:

1. Don't be desperate. If you're on tight ends, get a real job, and do this for fun on the side. The more desperate you are, the more you'll be willing to do for the money and you'll most likely meet some bad characters and worst case scenario, you'll get in trouble with the law or get hurt.
2. Don't be naive, or expect everyone to be honest. Don't send your bank info or give your full name. Don't pic exchange unless you know you are both interested and plan on meeting. Don't meet anyone privately right away. Don't ever give him your address. If he's sending you an Uber to pick you up, give him the address to a store nearby. Real daddies will never ask to meet at your place.
3. Have standards. This should be a given and kinda ties into number 1. No one wants a girl who wants everybody. Trouble is everywhere, you just need to avoid it.
4. Be yourself. You don't like when a guy lies or fakes you out, so don't fake out others.
5. Stop falling in love with your sugar daddy. That's just weird, on top of most of them being already married.