Website is full of creeps who say one thing and are another. But good luck deleting them or getting rid of their messages. You can't. The site, that performs as if we were still back in the dark ages, would allow you to ban, hide and delete profiles/messages. But refresh and they are all hanging there, waiting to be banned/hidden and deleted to come roaring back to life again.
PrideAngel is a little more legit, I think, and hookup websites even better. At least more honest. Don't waste your money on this garbage. You'd regret it within a minute of confirming payment.