Even if you use the really good cougar dating sites like Cougarlife and Cougars69 I think the best way to meet older women is to visit some nice bar and talk to them face to face. This is how I usually picked up most of them. I know it does not work for most of you guys. But I am in my early 30s, I am, and I know it sounds a little cocky, pretty attractive and know how to attract women. I'd prefer a face to face pickup over some cougar dating site. But I have used cougar dating sites so I understand why people do it and it is a great option if you were not lucky picking up cougars in some club or bar. However, only use legit cougar dating sites! You will recognize that 99% of all cougard dating sites are time wasters populated with fake profiles. Cougarlife is a good start and one of the two or three legit sites.