Your site have been kind and helpful. And I find my lady. I have about 6 or so women who look as if they could be serious potential lovers, and one hopefully will emerge as my next spouse. It is exciting except that i literally have no more money to even answer emails. Now, after many emails, people want to video chat or phone call. I just do not have the money to do this any more. I probably did not manage my time and resources well on the site- part of the brain injury, but that is now past.