This site is pretty good for a free site, and you can send and receive messages and exchange pics freely. I'm a 50 year old male, so there are not a huge amount of women in my demographic, however I guess I am picky, I like my women tiny and petite and generally blond. That said, I do not think you will meet the woman of your dreams on here, as you really have to look at the reasons why they are on this site in the first place. From my experience, most have baggage or other issues like insecurity, anxiety, horrible adult children who still live with them, or are not very sexual.